A Cure for Loneliness
I'm on Day 26 of the "Love Feast" and it has been such a revelation. I can feel the days I wake up and want to slide back to "normal". But this isn't even about Tananarive, in one sense--it is a matter of whether I can keep my word to myself, my commitment to giving total support, love, and intimacy to my baby girl every day. And as I expected, the obvious benefit is that she 100% wants to return that focus.
What was unexpected was how much work I need to do on myself. This is about moving to the next level of life in EVERY way. The area called "relationship" is connected with the other two: business and physical wellness. Body, Emotions, Mind, all intertwined. Make real generative changes in any of them, and you raise them all. In fact, in a very real way, if you DON'T have positive changes in the other arenas, it is a good bet that you've made cosmetic change, not "deep work."
This philosophy, finding the core aspects of beliefs and values, the self-love to hold yourself as worthy and precious, has been behind every LIFEWRITING offering starting with the very first writing courses, through the self-improvement work, and then things like the SOULMATE PROCESS
And now…I've done something a little mischievous. The heart-space needs to be healed to progress as we recommend. But plenty of people are not yet in relationships. And frankly, a LOT of guys are confused about this arena: how do they even get started in the dating game?
Some are just kids, teenagers getting started. Others are "Incels": Involuntary Celibates, men who desire sexual connection without being able to navigate those waters. And others HAD relationships, and whether by divorce or widowhood find themselves in uncomfortable and even painful territory.
After many years of hearing of their pain and fear, the confusion and loneliness, I realized that this was an arena I wanted to enter. That being ecstatically married was BASED on the absolute confidence I gained over many years: I knew that sex was not some mysterious and unknowable miracle, but the result of being in alignment with our natural selves in the modern world.
SAYING that is easier than DOING it, of course, and some of the principles involved are…let's say politically incorrect. I don't care about politics. I care about what is true. And in just two days, for the first time EVER, all of the attitudes and secrets I used to heal myself and enter the "Game" of sensual connection…and WIN are going to be laid out. And here's a hint, guys: YOU DON'T WIN UNLESS SHE DOES TOO.
This is no b.s. "how to pick up chicks" nonsense. This is what I would want any man to know who was interested in my sister, my daughter, any woman I loved. And it is designed to lift you to a new position in life, with new understanding and a healthier connection to your mind, heart, and sexuality…in just 100 Days.
On Friday…I'll tell you more!
Love is life…
Steve
