EPIPHANY AT THE BOOK FAIR
When in Miami I put my ego aside: this is Tananarive's territory, and I knew I'd be "Mr. Due." Its all good. Got that when someone recognized me at the hotel: "Are you Tananarive Due's husband?" She recognized me from an Instagram video or a Tweet.
But prepared for her to be praised (yes, she had the long autograph line) something else happened. Three different people came forward and said I'd changed their lives. One because of my writing (there are certain fantasy writers rolling over in their graves to be unfavorably compared to yours truly) and two who praised my life coaching.
A gentleman who said he'd lost ONE HUNDRED POUNDS following my advice on Intermittent Fasting and movement. The Morning Ritual. And the Blessing Dance.
His wife was there, and she's been doing it with him and they were GLOWING at each other. Just…wow. T and I had people coming up to us saying they wanted what we have. Wanted Soulmates. And were ready.
When I was working at the Moonview clinic in Santa Monica, there was a plaque on the wall to remind us of the seriousness of our mission: real, deep, whole body-mind healing. The plaque said something to the effect that "to be allowed entry into the human soul is the ultimate honor." To remind us that this was sacred work. That people were TRUSTING US. Even if I was "only" selling get-fit products, or instructions on how to make a toy, people would be trusting us to offer honest value, something that would help them move away from pain toward joy.
But what if you are offering a path to actual change? THAT level of trust is extraordinary, and if we aren't 100% sure we would offer it to our own younger selves…
Offer it to our grandmothers ("the granny test")
That it passes the Three Gates to the very best of our ability ("is it true? Is it kind? Is it useful?")
That has minimum risk and maximum potential benefits…
We cannot offer it. But as nice as it was for the fan to say improbable things about my ability as a fiction writer, it was A HUNDRED TIMES as important when that student, someone who heard me, trusted me, and actually APPLIED WHAT I SAID tells me that the work drastically improved his health and his marriage.
We lectured on writing on a perfectly fun panel with some brilliant communicators, and the room loved what we said. People said it was valuable and fascinating.
But I would trade a dozen of those for one person looking in my eyes and saying that I helped them open a door that had been locked.
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I'm not quite ready to talk about it yet, but one of my teachers, Harley "Swiftdeer" Reagan, visited me in a lucid dream this morning, and the effects were tremendous. It will take me a few days to sort it out.
But one of the results of all of this is a commitment to the Path. Helping people connect body, heart, and mind in a specific wonderful way my teachers offered me. PLEASE start by integrating the "Five Minute Miracle": deep slow diaphragmatic breathing, once every 1-3 hours. Do just THAT MUCH and you are on the Path, and I can help you further. Do just this much…and you are on the path of Mastery. Connect this across the three major domains of human existence, and you are starting to awaken.
When you are awake more often than not…you have crossed a nameless threshold, and are on a new journey…and can lead others.
And THAT is how we change the world.
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We are having a Black Friday sale on the FIREDANCE TAI CHI program. Unless my memory fails me, it’s the first such sale we've ever had, 20% off the already rock-bottom price for my very favorite program, the practice that saved and transformed my life. Just go to www.FIREDANCETAICHI.COM and enter the coupon code BLACKFRIDAYTAICHI2022. It is valid until midnight Sunday November 27th.
My goal is simple: to assist the awakening of one million adult human beings. I figure each of us can awaken a thousand people. If I can teach teachers, people committed to a better world willing to start with themselves, we can do this together.
This is an amazing moment in the world, in my life and journey.
Join me.
Namaste
Steve